In addition to those ones msalaba listed, I'd probably consider the following my "preferred" mod setup - I'm not linking to them but they're all on Nexus under the names I've written here. (note that I tend to play on Survival Mode when I'm not "testing" things, and I could probably trim a couple of these out)
Armor/Other Wearables:
"Gunmetal Armor Skins", "Shadowed Synth Armor", "Wearable Backpacks and Pouches", "Atom's Glory Threads"
Weapons:
"Skibadaa Weapon Pack REDUX", "HK G11 K2" (by asXas), "X12 Plasmacaster", "LAER (Laser Assisted Electrical Rifle)"
Weather/Lighting:
"Apocalyptic Weather - FellIN" (this is not going to be to everyone's tastes, it's quite dark/dusty, especially at night)
Other:
"DLC Leveled List Integration", "Crafting Framework" (the one that goes with Armor/Clothing Overhaul), "This Is My Bed", "Settler & Companion Dialog Overhaul", "Corpse Cleaner", "New Recipes 2", "Synthetic Player", "PCOP - Power Conduits and Pylons Overhaul", "Acids and Adhesives"
As is clear, I like a lot of little tweak/QOL things, with a token couple weapon/armor additions.
Also been testing "APC transport" this last runthrough, kind of fiddly but it's nice to have a car to "drive around". (even if it's just Fast Travel with extra steps)