Well, the bar is a % of how well you match you needs. Have you taken out a happiness report from within the Sim Settlement holotape?
*unofficial fallout 4 patch.esp
*HUDFramework.esm
*ArmorKeywords.esm
*FFO.esm
*SimSettlements.esm
*XDI.esm
*CROSS_BrotherhoodRecon.esp
*CROSS_CourserStrigidae.esp
*dd-enhanced blood basic.esp
*improved map with visible roads.esp
*vivid weathers - fo4.esp
*LooksMenu Customization Compendium.esp
*busty grrl.esp
*solarpower.esp
*ValdacilsItemSorting-00-ValsPicks-DLCVersion-VanillaWeight.esp
*3dscopes.esp
*console_enable.esp
*lovingcurie.esp
*limit_mm_quests.esp
*remove invisibility effect.esp
*FFO.esp
*MBs_Clean_Sanctuary_v1_2.esp
*moreuniques.esp
*Armorsmith Extended.esp
*eli_faction housing overhaul - aio.esp
*FQ_NoMoreLODFlicker_AIO.esp
*MODaquatic.esp
*mojaveimports.esp
*campsite.esp
*GSRM2.esp
*CommonwealthChooksAndBunnies.esp
*crowdedcommonwealth.esp
*centralstation.esp
*MsAbominations.esp
*collector.esp
*Eli_Armour_Compendium.esp
*MODspider.esp
*bettersettlements.esp
*beastwhisperer.esp
*modgirlyanimation.esp
*KSHairdos.esp
*Companion Infinite Ammo.esp
*Danse GTFO Power Armor.esp
*Dashing Danse 0.1.esp
*EasyHacking.esp
*OCDecorator.esp
*OCDispenser.esp
*OCDecoratorDLC.esp
*AzarPonytailHairstyles.esp
*Quieter Settlements - Vanilla.esp
*Quieter Settlements - Wasteland Workshop.esp
*Quieter Settlements - Contraptions.esp
*dD-Realistic Ragdoll Force.esp
*BrighterSettlementLights.esp
*CBBE.esp
*True Legendary Enemies.esp
*MirelurkQueenVariants2.esp
*DarkerNights.esp
*MoreBeards.esp
*FlirtyCommonwealthMM.esp
*No Blur while Crafting.esp
*NukaFridge_Test1.esp
*MoreHairstyles4Female.esp
*MoreHairstyles4Male.esp
*Realistic Survival Damage.esp
*Quick Save.esp
*EAMR.esp
*Enhanced Commonwealth Wardrobe.esp
*BetterSettlers.esp
*BetterSettlersCleanFacePack.esp
*AnotherBrickInTheWall.esp
*PlayerHeadTracking.esp
*Altairp's Animal Farm.esp
*Eli_Rockin Red Rocket.esp
*vivid waters.esp
*SimSettlements_AddOnPack_AwsomeTown.esp
*Pug.esp
*EnhancedLightsandFX.esp
*Eli_Sanctuary Bunker.esp
*stumbleuponinteriors.esp
*AzarHolsteredWeapons.esp
*CommonwealthCritters - Both DLC.esp
*TrailerParkDreams.esp
*FogCraw_Pet01.esp
*IMP.esp
*FO4 NPCs Travel.esp
*Kraggles - Structures.esp
*FO4SeasonsMoreGrass.esp
*BetterSettlersCCAPack2.0.esp
*BetterSettlersNoLollygagging.esp
*home_improvement_all.esp
*SimHomestead.esp
*PCDugWedges.esp
*PCDugTriangularRevolution.esp
*SettlementMenuManager.esp
*SimSettlements_AddOnPack_Foundations_JtBryant.esp
*SimSettlementsHelper.esp
*SimSettlements_XPAC_IndustrialRevolution.esp
*IndustrialCity_Sim_Settlements_Addon.esp
*btinteriors_project.esp
*AgemoNPCs(E).esp
*LooksMenu.esp
*The Castle Revamped felloutislife.esp
*Workshop_Planters.esp
*HZS Office and Stores.esp
*move that workbench!.esp
*Farming Resources.esp
*MJC_Sim_Settlements_Addon.esp
And I have all mods